User talk:Aspie

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Again, welcome, and we're glad you're joining us! Sincerely,   Perfectionist   (talk) 20:41, 25 October 2022 (UTC)

Gear Infoboxes

Infoboxes I'm gear pages should be under the specific game. The infobox gobbler already pulls all of the Infoboxes to the top of the page. Feel free to correct typos and improve descriptions, but don't change the layout. Besnhasthefun 19:04, 18 November 2022 (UTC)

I've noticed that, but sometimes the infoboxes move to the bottom and I need to move them manually. Don't worry, I'll try not to mess with the layout anymore. Aspie (talk) 19:14, 18 November 2022 (UTC)

Your behavior on Discord

Hello Aspie, to protect our community we have blocked you permanently due to multiple counts of inappropriate content and harassment. If you seek help for your behavior and afterwards feel that you have changed for the better, you may appeal the ban by contacting an admin, at which point Inkipedia staff would review the appeal and let you know whether the request is approved or denied. I hope that you learn from your mistakes before attempting to engage with our community again, and I sincerely wish you well. Heddy (talk) 23:21, 3 May 2023 (UTC)

I understand all of this. But before I go, I want you to hear me out. I don’t want you to forgive me, but to understand me Aspie (talk) 13:33, 4 May 2023 (UTC)

So, I've decided to share my story to help you understand why I do behave in such a manner. As I've mentioned, I don't expect forgiveness, I expect understanding. I write this with a calm mind and a will for change.

My problems began when I was 14, when my parents parted ways. My father became extremely aggressive and manipulative towards me, going as far as swearing. I was forced to move with my mother to a smaller flat, trying to help her with the breakdown, while not receiving any support. My symptoms started to appear and have become worse with each month and year, until now.

I also started to identify as a non-binary to escape strict gender norms in my country and due to my relationship with my father.

I've joined Inkipedia to seek support and acceptance from people similar to me, who may finally understand me. The result is the feeling of treason, grief and unfairness. I know I've crossed the line and my removal from the community was understandable, even with all my edits and contributions, but calling me a "creep", "predator" and "thug" was a blow below the belt. I've lost all my friends, who now think of me as a danger. This pushed me to deletion of my Discord account, removal of all my friends from my Nintendo account and my withdrawal from the pool. I don't blame the community or you, since you only fulfil your job, but I blame Trig and Ozwald for accusing me of such things. Insecure as I am, I would never hurt a minor. Please, take action against them, since I'm afraid other people may also fall victim of such accuses. At the same time, I don't propose banning them, but telling them all I've written here. Maybe they will understand.

Anyways, I don't feel resentment towards you. I'm going to therapy in a month, so wish me luck. I shall return and help the wiki when I get better. If you've read all of this, thank you. I appreciate it.

Farewell,

Bruno

Ps. One more thing. Could you show it to all people in the server? I don't want to leave as a criminal. Or rather, I want to explain myself to them. Aspie (talk) 17:49, 5 May 2023 (UTC)